Sunday, January 11, 2015

Magnetic:Becoming the Girl He Wants, by Lynn Cowell

In this book, Lynn Cowell tells women how they can become the type of person that attracts friends and boyfriends by living the way that God wants them to live. According to, Magnetic, one can do so by loving others the way that God loves us, unconditionally. Instead of concentrating on material goods and men, one should first concentrate on getting to know Jesus. In one's dealings with others, one should give up hating, envying, and being rude to others. One should not be selfish, should not keep score of past wrongs, and not take joy in the sorrow of others. One should be joyful, choosing to focus on the good in one's life, instead of focusing on one's sorrows. One should practice patience and not seek out conflicts. One should not worry or manipulate things (rather they should trust God). One should be gentle and kind. By obeying God's will, one will become a "magnetic" girl, who attracts those who are also dedicated to God.
Overall, the book is good. It's well written and easy to understand. The advice is rational and the book gives good advice on how to live a life that pleases God and shows others that one cares for God. There are quizzes and a group study guide that accompany the book, as well as spaces to record notes. My only complaint is that not all of the things are always up to one. For instance, one can choose to try to look on the bright side, but that doesn't always work. Sometimes, one is beset by so many troubles that, despite one's best efforts, one simply cannot feel joy. However, Cowell does admit that doing these things takes diligence and is not always easy. All in all, I'd give this book a 4.5 out of 5.
Disclosure: I received a copy of this book from the publisher through the Blogging For Books program in exchange for an honest review.

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